I don't know if she's lying to me...?

My girlfriend recently told me that she has lung cancer. I have feel horrible for the past couple of days. It's a long distance relationship and I feel bad I can't be in that for her. The only thing is her story has a few holes. I repugnance to point them out, but my dad has been pointing them out to me and I can't help but wonder if she is, generally because she has lied to me about big things before. She go in for a cancer screening on a sunday. I can't think of a single doctor that's open on a sunday. Maybe an emergency room call in, but she told me that she was going to the doctor's on sunday a few days before, so that means it be an appointment. And, she's also only 16. A 16 yr. old with lung cancer is extremely singular. Especially because she doesn't smoke. Like I said before, I hate to point these out and be skeptical. It is a long distance relationship, so there really isn't a course I can know undoubtedly. I can't visit her in the hospital and see her lose her hair after chemo. She could've lied to me, because here is no way I could prove her wrong.

can get lung cancer even if you don't smoke ( 2nd foot and 3rd hand smoke is much of a killer than smoking yourself). It is unlikely that as young as 16 can achieve a cancer but if it runs in their family there might be a luck. LASTLY no doctor will diagnose CANCER in one visit. There will be a series of test since a doctor tells his patient that he has cancer. She might with the sole purpose have a pneumonia. Just call her man, she only requirements attention.
I cogitate she is lying.

I have had doctor's appointmens for years and have never, ever have an appt on a Sunday. I have had a kidney and pancreas transplant and never even saw those doctors on a Sunday, unless I was in fact in the hospital.

I'm voting with your dad.
i think there might a slight chance that she lying to you , one of the ways you can check if she's lying if you ring up her and speak with her parents , i think she is lying because if she doesn't smoke but there is a providence that she is telling the truth but see if her parents smoke it could have been cause by the inhalation of tobacco smoke by living and working quarters, so if you think she lying well at hand is only one way to find out call her and ask for her parents directly Source(s): www.medicinenet.com
Call her parents to like check up on her or something
cancer is very bloody for a 16 year old. Does she have a history of cancer in her own flesh and blood?

She is probably testing you.
Personally I don't think the question you should be asking is "is she lying" but "WHY is she lying?"
ould seem she is wanting to be sure of your attention, and take home you feel guilty if you are thinking of breaking up.

Long distant relationships are hard on anyone, and only work if in attendance is a lot of trust. It would seem there is little trust surrounded by your relationship, so it is probably not going to last. I can't imagine a long distant relationship working for any length of time with teenagers anyway.

Sorry to break the news to you, but it is obvious that this person is dumping you and not doing it severely well. I also hate to tell you that, if you never physically met this human being, this could be a 40-year-old man or 70-year-old woman lying to you. Cyber relationships are nonsense and many weird individuals pretend to be someone they aren't while on-line.

Just forget about this person, but try to learn from the experience. Try dating definite girls in your home town. There is no such thing as a cyber girlfriend.


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