I am a mother of a 27 year hoary daughter next to possible breast cancer how to operate beside this?

Her and her 2 year old daughter are living with me currently and we fight 24/7 i cant control her mouth and disrespect what to do if she have cancer i cant let her go threw it alone
Answers:    First wait for the diagnosis.
s massively young to have breast cancer.

If cancer is not diagnosed (the most likely scenario) next deal with the real issue - the nouns of respect.

But at the same time, you enjoy to show respect to get respect.
Try it - the results may suprise you!
Let me get this straight -- your daughter is 27 and might have cancer? That totally sucks! But the fact that adjectives you 2 do is fight is normal: to you, she's a child, but she's actually a grown fully developed with a daughter of her own. Start treating her like an adult instead. Not to mention the stress the little girl feel, hearing mommy and grandma fight --- she probably doesn't know what cancer is, only that it's discouraging.If she's old enough, she probably thinks mommy mortal sick is all her fault, too.

You and your daughter sit down, make up a set of rules of what is pleasing, and stick to it. If either of you get super angry, go outside: communicate a walk to calm down; kick rocks, cuss at the sky -- purely get it out away from each other. That way you'll draw from along better, and the little girl will be under a LOT less stress.
If it turns out that she does, later going to a support group, preferrably one of breast cancer survivors, would be best. Not only for her sake to deal with the cancer, but for both of your sakes to hopefully bring you closer together as a family connections.
My heart goes out to you.
your daughters mouth always been a problem or is she reacting angrily to what might be a cancer?
masses people deal with this surrounded by varying ways.
All you can do is be there for her but at same time not be her emotional punch bag. If she is angry afterwards try and talk and maybe also try and get some counselling for you and your daughter.
Her GP and the hospital may also know how to put you in touch with some local support groups too. Not forgetting cancer research Uk too may be able to give you some help and advice. Source(s): RN
The mother/daughter relationship is almost never what we want it to be, but like any other parent you want to be near for your daughter. Sure she may be arrogant and disrespectful at times, but maybe its the sassy and the toughness in her thats going to brave her through this cancer. Know that it sounds like your daughter is strong and if her opinion of yourself is anything like her will then she will survive it. Appreciate her for that.
In the mean time, basically be there for her. You can explain that you want to be a support to her and you wont allow her to go through this alone and you want to work on the relationship that you have beside her. It may take u a while to think this way.. but everything happen for a reason and maybe the two of you need an experience approaching this one to bond.. it may not be fair.. but no one said life be fair.
Good luck to you both
You guys need to go to counseling whether she have cancer or not. You all need to learn how to cope. She may own to move out. There is no rule that says just because you are "blood" you have to lift care of her for the rest of your life. In fact, it's time to tolerate go. I would tell her if she behaves you will relieve her thru treatment. Otherwise, you don't have to take the abuse, cancer or no.
PRAY TO THE GOOD LORD HE WILL HELP. Source(s): GOD BLESS
Well that sucks for you. You should stop getting sick. I mean OMG you probably are to young to get cancer. I stingy, don't you have a relative that can help you out or something with this situation! Seriously!
LEARN!
You say 'possible' breast cancer, so unmistakably it hasn't been diagnosed yet. Breast cancer in someone as childish as she is is extremely rare - fewer than 0.1% of all those diagnosed next to breast cancer are under 30 and only 5% are under 40.

So there's a apposite chance that whatever symptoms she has won't turn out to be breast cancer.
if it is cancer, afterwards no, of course you can't let her go through it alone. However difficult things acquire, she is going to need your support, especially as she has a young child. If she does own breast cancer she is in for a rough ride with treatments, and she will be fearful of her uncertain adjectives.

I'm afraid anger is one of the things she is very likely to feel and this may show as nouns towards you sometimes.

http://www.breastcancer.org

http://www.breastcancercare.org.uk


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