I am the mother of a 27 year antiquated daughter next to possible breast cancer how to cope next to this?
Her and her 2 year old daughter are living at my house now we are always aggression don,t know what to do
Answers: i know it seem really trivial given what you could be facing, but make a concerted effort to laugh,. keep watch on stand up comedy (ricky gervaid, eddie izzard...). i have been going through some truely (truely) horredous moments , a friend suggested i do this and believe me, i really didnt'want to put the dvds on because i wanted to mope and surface sorry for myself. but i did it and was so surprised to find myself laughing. and afterwards i felt lighter and that not everything was impossible and was so grateful i could still laugh when dealing with so oodles bad things.
ing healthy is also very prominent for when you are under any type of stress. so make sure to eat right, seize lots of fresh air (walk an hour a day if you are sitting down all day) and try avoid the conspicuous bad things - the drink, cigarettes, etc. you WILL feel better for it. also sleep a good 8 hours a darkness whenever possible. if you don't have to set your alarm, don't. let your body get as much sleep as it desires.
interact. loneliness is a easy route to sadness, it's amazing what a chat - or any type of connection can do. u don't even necessarily own to talk about your problems...expressing yourself and being reminded you can interact next to all kinds of people is any graceful way to lift spirits.
and more importantly than adjectives this - give yourself a break and don't be hard on yourself or others. give yourself a treat and be nice to yourself....you're the one being you can force to be liked by, so do it. respect yourself and realise you may not be on top form in these next few months but it's zilch to beat yourself up about.
all the best
EDIT - also, as a passageway to help you sleep and to boost your mood and stop you worrying, when you're in bed and have your eyes closed, brand name a list of all the things you are grateful for. i believe in god so i do it as i sensitive of prayer....but it's still ultimately a list and will work whether u believe in god or not. most the stuff i include is stupid stuff, not particularly sentimental, purely things like "thank you that my spot managed to go in the past my big date" ,"thank you for the nice phone call from my sister", "thank you that i have access to loads of great films and books to ease my mind a little", "thank you i found that dress partly price", etc....it's a nice peaceful way to go asleep...
You don't know yet if she does have cancer and you're stressing something vicious. Has she had an MRI yet? Did she have a mammogram that showed a lump? or did she get the impression the lump? She is your daughter you will know what to do out of instinct. I have 3 grown daughters. The youngest is 35 and with our family history of breast cancer, I press them to get tested or do self checks. Until you know for sure that she has breast cancer you have to unmoved down and be supportive. Don't tell her she'll be alright when you don't know for sure. Talk to her, Be her friend as well as her mother. You'd be surprised at how she will react You own to be the one to stop fighting. You have to be the one to be there for her if she have it. Go out together, Have lunch with each other, See movies together. Get to know one another all over again. Just be friends and love one another Br blessed Source(s): RN Breast cancer survivor
Go to breastcancer.org there is a caregiver thread on that site they will have a ton of support and information for you and your daughter. I'm srorry your going through this. God bless.
I regard you need support for yourself. Start by visiting your doctor who can point yo in the right direction - you can draw from cancer support groups for families of sufferers or a private counsellor if you prefer. i am sorry to her of your awful situation
I just answered this too; here's my answer again:
say 'possible' breast cancer, so obviously it hasn't be diagnosed yet. Breast cancer in someone as young as she is is extremely scarce - fewer than 0.1% of all those diagnosed with breast cancer are underneath 30 and only 5% are under 40.
So there's a good arbitrariness that whatever symptoms she has won't turn out to be breast cancer.
I'm afraid anger is one of the things she is terrifically likely to feel and this may show as hostility towards you sometimes.
These two websites hold a lot of information about breast cancer, and they also have forums; both enjoy a forum for family and friends where you can talk to other nation in the same position s you or just nouns off knowing they will understand. Your daughter may well find the forums positive too - I did:
ref="http://www.breastcancer.org" rel="nofollow">http://www.breastcancer.org
http://www.breastcancercare.org.uk
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Answers: i know it seem really trivial given what you could be facing, but make a concerted effort to laugh,. keep watch on stand up comedy (ricky gervaid, eddie izzard...). i have been going through some truely (truely) horredous moments , a friend suggested i do this and believe me, i really didnt'want to put the dvds on because i wanted to mope and surface sorry for myself. but i did it and was so surprised to find myself laughing. and afterwards i felt lighter and that not everything was impossible and was so grateful i could still laugh when dealing with so oodles bad things.
ing healthy is also very prominent for when you are under any type of stress. so make sure to eat right, seize lots of fresh air (walk an hour a day if you are sitting down all day) and try avoid the conspicuous bad things - the drink, cigarettes, etc. you WILL feel better for it. also sleep a good 8 hours a darkness whenever possible. if you don't have to set your alarm, don't. let your body get as much sleep as it desires.
interact. loneliness is a easy route to sadness, it's amazing what a chat - or any type of connection can do. u don't even necessarily own to talk about your problems...expressing yourself and being reminded you can interact next to all kinds of people is any graceful way to lift spirits.
and more importantly than adjectives this - give yourself a break and don't be hard on yourself or others. give yourself a treat and be nice to yourself....you're the one being you can force to be liked by, so do it. respect yourself and realise you may not be on top form in these next few months but it's zilch to beat yourself up about.
all the best
EDIT - also, as a passageway to help you sleep and to boost your mood and stop you worrying, when you're in bed and have your eyes closed, brand name a list of all the things you are grateful for. i believe in god so i do it as i sensitive of prayer....but it's still ultimately a list and will work whether u believe in god or not. most the stuff i include is stupid stuff, not particularly sentimental, purely things like "thank you that my spot managed to go in the past my big date" ,"thank you for the nice phone call from my sister", "thank you that i have access to loads of great films and books to ease my mind a little", "thank you i found that dress partly price", etc....it's a nice peaceful way to go asleep...
You don't know yet if she does have cancer and you're stressing something vicious. Has she had an MRI yet? Did she have a mammogram that showed a lump? or did she get the impression the lump? She is your daughter you will know what to do out of instinct. I have 3 grown daughters. The youngest is 35 and with our family history of breast cancer, I press them to get tested or do self checks. Until you know for sure that she has breast cancer you have to unmoved down and be supportive. Don't tell her she'll be alright when you don't know for sure. Talk to her, Be her friend as well as her mother. You'd be surprised at how she will react You own to be the one to stop fighting. You have to be the one to be there for her if she have it. Go out together, Have lunch with each other, See movies together. Get to know one another all over again. Just be friends and love one another Br blessed Source(s): RN Breast cancer survivor
Go to breastcancer.org there is a caregiver thread on that site they will have a ton of support and information for you and your daughter. I'm srorry your going through this. God bless.
I regard you need support for yourself. Start by visiting your doctor who can point yo in the right direction - you can draw from cancer support groups for families of sufferers or a private counsellor if you prefer. i am sorry to her of your awful situation
I just answered this too; here's my answer again:
say 'possible' breast cancer, so obviously it hasn't be diagnosed yet. Breast cancer in someone as young as she is is extremely scarce - fewer than 0.1% of all those diagnosed with breast cancer are underneath 30 and only 5% are under 40.
So there's a good arbitrariness that whatever symptoms she has won't turn out to be breast cancer.
I'm afraid anger is one of the things she is terrifically likely to feel and this may show as hostility towards you sometimes.
These two websites hold a lot of information about breast cancer, and they also have forums; both enjoy a forum for family and friends where you can talk to other nation in the same position s you or just nouns off knowing they will understand. Your daughter may well find the forums positive too - I did:
ref="http://www.breastcancer.org" rel="nofollow">http://www.breastcancer.org
http://www.breastcancercare.org.uk
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