I have a feeling completely discouraged. I'm humanitarian for my mom who have wrap up stage terminal cancer. Any suggestions?


only make sure you optimize time together and you should help her make peace beside her life. it is an important life-stage to be able to review one's lifetime and be okay near what it was. let her talk almost her fears and share yours with her. communication is really important.
may start to not make sense as normally the meds will confuse patients and they may say absurd things. of late know that it is the meds.

make sure you have a strong network of associates you can rely on too. you will need them!

i am sorry you have to step through this, but it sounds as if you are coping very healthily, by recognizing your emotions and communicating them. Source(s): i am a nurse.
Love her, and get to know her. Realizing that you didn't really know your mother is a horrible feeling. While you still hold time, ask her about her past, her feelings, and the little things that sort her day. Hopefully that will give you happy memories of your mom when she have passed on. And if she is past the point of coherence, just be there for her as much as you can. I'm sure she appreciates it.
Oh my god i am so sorry. I know how you feel. Most of the line members in my step family hold some kind of rare heart disease and all of them hold passed away around their mid 30's. My step mom died about two years ago and she had five kids... My older step sister is 18 and one of my best friends and i don't know what i would do lacking her.
About the single thing I might add is to try to do those things which she enjoys if at all possible so that you and the family have some good memories as capably as the bad. A good book to review is by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross on death and dying which may sustain you accept death and might help her as resourcefully.
I recently lost my mother of natural causes and the demise is never easy but you have to think of the well brought-up memories in order to sustain yourself. You have my condolences for human being in a very sad position.
All you can do is love her and help her get comfortable with the finish coming soon , I was so impressed when my father died from cancer ,I never expected for him to go with the erudition that the end was right there and he be ready to go he was 70 and seem happy and ready to go to his reward ,eventhough he have not been very religious in lots years, I felt his love for the next phase of being .what ever it be .. Hope you get some comfort from this Source(s): experience
Tough phone! I live in Canada and we have organizations resembling The Hospice Society, Red Cross and Cancer support clinics. Look in the yellow pages beneath mental health or maybe they have listings for support groups. Call the Red Cross or Blue Cross and ask give or take a few support systems. I admire your srength and devotion and I hope you can find some well deserved support. Oh and try the Salvation Army. They have a pretty angelic net working system also. My heart goes out to you and your mother. Good luck and God bless.
Just be there for her and hang on for her sake. You can fall apart then and you will. I wish you all the best.
One word. Hospice. If you haven't contacted your local hospice support group please do so. They can help make your mother's final days more serene and will be there to give support to support you.

and is nothing you can do for her and you musnt blame your self thats the first thing..
i was 12 when i lost my mother how dated are you?
you just need to remember and celebrate her time and not mourn her death
also i have lost 2 friends in yesteryear year and the best solution that i have had is to celebrate bring those closer that you own neglected and keep in touch
love
good luck
Just be there for her until the winding up.


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