If you get cancer would you make clear to populace, and if so how?

would you tell people at all, or verbs about hurting/worrying them?
are your thoughts on relationships at a infantile age with it? would it be easier to break it off, and if so would you tell them why or not?

individually i think open honesty is the best approach, but i'm curious about other opinion. i think it's human nature to worry nearly it's effect on those around you.
Answers:     My family, yeah I would tell them. My bf would not depart from me because of cancer. I would not want him to leave.
Every ones experience is different. But like the previous answer, it will grow impossible to hide the side effects of treatment. You may be able to hair it at first but as chemotherapy treatments continue you'll be able to hide it smaller number and less. I had to tell my wife on feb. 14 2006. And I did obtain my whole family together to tell them.
re I told them I made sure I be well informed on my particular cancer and the treatments and my survival chances and adjectives that other good stuff, because I knew they would have abundantly of questions.

My brothers and I are also best friends, my father is also my mentor and very close to me, my mom has other supported me, and as for my wife..... there is no words to describe the love and support her fragile soul gave me.

If I would have kept something this essential secret from them I don't know how I would have made it.
Ofcoarse i would make clear to them as it would be much worse if i just died without telling them.It would be difficult but i would hold to tell them.
Eh, I would relate my family and a few close friends. I don't like to make family worried about me.
ng cancer shouldn't mean that you can't have a relationship.
I think that is a really good cross-question.

When I was first diagnosed with my cancer I was completely shocked and did not want anyone to know. Part of me be in denial and felt that the more people that know about it - the more real the situation would feel. The other subdivision of me didn't want to worry my friends and family, as I found out quite rash on that the type of lymphoma I have will never go into remission completely due to a number of complications.

If I could turn the clock back, I would own told them much sooner, and not let them find out the way they did. Although, they understand that the defence I did not tell them was because I was worried almost hurting them, they were all a little hurt, that I kept it to myself and go through so much alone.

Its a tricky situation and there's no perfect solution. Im glad my family and fiance know now, but abhorrence it when I can hear him crying to himself in the night after he thinks I've fall asleep. Source(s): experience
yeah why not
i would not tell anyone. It will not alter or effect what I do and the treatment that follows. I wouldn't want to worry anyone. I would just leave a detailed notification if I had to have major surgery or such.
I believe that it is up to the individual to tell or not to tell, who they want and how oodles people they want to know....when they are ready.
someone has purely found out that they have cancer, it's first a state of shock to accept those words: You have cancer.

Each soul is different in the way they accept things, switch situations and the things they need to do in order to achieve through whatever going on in their life.

It took my husband 2 years to finally accept that he was now disabled, and have stage IV cancer. We have been battling this cancer side-by-side since the minute we found out.

Over the years, I've cut down from full time to member time at my work to make all the doctors appt's my husband was required to own. Over the last 28 months he has had 17 brain surgeries, and have one more to go. After his 17th surgery which was on 5/8/09, I have to finally leave my job for good within order to take care of my husband at home. He can not be vanished alone anymore, and is now fully unable to care for himself. I know the day would come where I'd have to stay home next to him and leave my job for good. There isn't anything within the world I wouldn't do for my husband! He is my husband, my best friend, my partner...my world.


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